Alive in our Hearts

It's so difficult to say goodbye to a loved one who has passed away.  Regardless of how old they were, we never want to lose our loved ones. Whether they were 96 or 46, it's always too soon. A few days ago, many friends and family had to muster up the strength to do such a thing when Marla was laid to rest.  Now Lombard has a void.  A deep void.  A long time resident, a teacher, a community helper, a student of life, a mother, a wife, a daughter and a dear friend is gone. 

I was one of hundreds who paid their last respects last week at Marla's wake.  Quite frankly, her name doesn't belong in that sentence.  She was taken too young and too soon.  As I stood in the receiving line, I became reacquainted with Marla.  There were numerous collages of pictures of her throughout the funeral home.  Each collage represented a different era in her shortened life.  And in every picture was her infectious smile and radiating warmth.  I even saw a childlike quality in those pictures.  A quality that perhaps explains why so many people were drawn to her.  I overheard several conversations in that funeral home, too.  Many friends, old and new, were recalling good times with Marla; driving to work together when her car broke down and laughing about it was one of many stories shared that night.  Other people remembered her smile.  A smile that never seemed to leave her face. 

Another close friend talked about how Marla was everyone's cheerleader.  Whether you were going through a difficult time in your life or just lost a pound on a diet, Marla would cheer you on, encourage you and celebrate your victories.  She was the epitomy of a good friend.  I hadn't seen her in many years, but she clearly hadn't changed.  A good thing for everyone who knew her. 

Even though Marla is gone, (again, her name doesn't belong there) her legacy will live on through her family, friends, co-workers, students and neighbors.  She left a deep footprint in the hearts of many, and through them, her memory will be kept alive for generations to come.

I found myself inspired by Marla and how she lived.  So much so, that I've decided to become involved in volunteer work again.  To give back, to help others and become more involved in my community.  I want to become a little bit like Marla.